What to Text Your Ex After No Contact

What do you want to say? And why? Start digging there.

(Assuming you've already confirmed it makes sense to text your ex. If not, start there.)

The Goal of Your First Message

Your only objective with the first text is simple:

State what is true for you, and what you're open to.

That's it.

There's no "text two" instructions. They either reply, or they don't. And if they reply, and they tell you to leave them alone? Then that is what you do.

Want help working out exactly what to do/say in your situation? Email [email protected] with the subject line what to text?