Michael Fulmer

Answering relationship questions

Michael Fulmer — Breakup Recovery Coach

Helping people recover from heartbreak with dignity since 2011.


New Answers

Question: what to do when I said something I actually meant to hurt her? - you said something unforgivable in the breakup conversation and you can't stop replaying it. What now?

Question: how can I make my ex want me back? - there's a paradox at play when you try to "make" someone want you back.

Question: what should I text my ex after no contact? - ah, that first contact moment. Read on for a look at the early texting strategy.

Question: should I text my ex? - annoyingly, that depends. Read on for a nuanced take.


About

Michael Fulmer is a relationship coach and breakup recovery expert with over 15 years of experience. Trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 1 & 2), he specializes in helping men and women through the worst part of a breakup.

Since 2011, Michael has helped thousands of clients worldwide navigate heartbreak, rebuild self-respect, and—where appropriate—successfully reconnect with their ex-partners.

Michael has created breakup recovery courses, and offers coaching.


Timeline

2008 — Began researching relationship psychology and infidelity after observing multiple divorces in his family. Deep study of betrayal, trust, and reconciliation patterns.
2010 — Focused on breakup recovery and reconnection, sparking the foundation for what would become his life's work.
2011 — Founded a platform for breakup recovery resources and personalized coaching.
2015 — Launched a comprehensive digital course that has since enrolled over 1,000 members.
2020s — Completed Gottman Method Couples Therapy training (Level 1 & 2), grounding his practical experience in research-based relationship science.
2025 — Released a new digital course offering a new systematic approach to breakup recovery and relationship restoration, emphasising pride, posture, and psychological positioning.
Present — Operates a boutique online coaching practice from England, working with clients globally. In July 2026, Michael entirely rebooted his approach to breakup healing and recovery.

Work & Resources

2015 Digital Course

A comprehensive resource for working on your breakup and rekindling with your ex.

2024/25 Digital Course

An updated breakup recovery system. Systematic approach to healing and reconnection.

Email Newsletter

Daily breakup recovery insights delivered to 10,000+ subscribers worldwide.


Recognition & Media


Philosophy

Michael's approach is currently going through a major transition.

"You deserve the life you design. So design the life you deserve."

Contact

Based in England. Available for select 1-on-1 coaching engagements. To learn more, email [email protected] with:

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