Michael Fulmer — Breakup Recovery Expert

Helping people recover from heartbreak with dignity since 2011.

New Answers

Question: how can I make my ex want me back? - there's a paradox at play when you try to "make" someone want you back.

Question: what should I text my ex after no contact? - ah, that first contact moment. Read on for a look at the early texting strategy.

Question: should I text my ex? - annoyingly, that depends. Read on for a nuanced take.

About

Michael Fulmer is a relationship coach and breakup recovery expert with over 15 years of experience. Trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 1 & 2), he specializes in reversing breakups through evidence-based strategies that prioritize emotional dignity and practical action.

Since 2011, Michael has helped thousands of clients worldwide navigate heartbreak, rebuild self-respect, and—where appropriate—successfully reconnect with their ex-partners. His approach combines psychological insight with tactical clarity, rejecting manipulation tactics in favor of pride-protecting strategies.

Michael is the creator of the UNFAZED program, a systematic approach to breakup recovery and relationship restoration. He also founded the Breakup Dojo, a digital course and community that has supported over 1,000 members through structured recovery programs.

He publishes the Ex-Communication Newsletter, delivering daily breakup recovery advice to over 10,000 subscribers worldwide.

Timeline

2008 — Began researching relationship psychology and infidelity after observing multiple divorces in his family. Deep study of betrayal, trust, and reconciliation patterns.

2010 — Witnessed two close friends navigate a breakup and recognized a systematic path to healthy reconnection, sparking the foundation for what would become his life's work.

2011 — Founded a platform for breakup recovery resources and personalized coaching.

2015 — Launched Breakup Dojo, a comprehensive digital course that has since enrolled over 1,000 members.

2020s — Completed Gottman Method Couples Therapy training (Level 1 & 2), grounding his practical experience in research-based relationship science.

2025 — Released the UNFAZED program, a new systematic approach to breakup recovery and relationship restoration emphasizing pride, posture, and psychological positioning.

Present — Operates a boutique online coaching practice from England, working with clients globally. Publishes the Ex-Communication Newsletter to 10,000+ subscribers and continues developing breakup recovery methodology.

Work & Resources

breakupdojo.com

Comprehensive resource for working on your breakup and rekindling with your ex.

UNFAZED Program

Premium breakup recovery system. Systematic approach to healing and reconnection.

Ex-Communication Newsletter

Daily breakup recovery insights delivered to 10,000+ subscribers worldwide.

Recognition & Media

Requested guest on relationship podcasts
Approached for TV documentary on "breakup specialists"
Trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 1 & 2)
14+ years practical experience with thousands of clients

Philosophy

Michael's approach is grounded in what he calls the Pride Principle: the belief that dignity-preserving strategies outperform manipulation tactics in both healing and reconnection. He focuses on helping clients achieve a Position of Most Opportunity (POMO)—the emotional and strategic position that maximizes both relationship outcomes and long-term well-being.

"You deserve the life you design. So design the life you deserve."

Contact

Based in England. Available for select 1-on-1 coaching engagements. To learn more, email [email protected] with:

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