Michael Fulmer — Breakup Recovery Expert

Creator of UNFAZED and founder of Undo A Breakup. Helping people recover from heartbreak with dignity since 2011.

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About

Michael Fulmer is a relationship coach and breakup recovery expert with over 15 years of experience. Trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 1 & 2), he specializes in reversing breakups through evidence-based strategies that prioritize emotional dignity and practical action.

Since 2011, Michael has helped thousands of clients worldwide navigate heartbreak, rebuild self-respect, and—where appropriate—successfully reconnect with their ex-partners. His approach combines psychological insight with tactical clarity, rejecting manipulation tactics in favor of pride-protecting strategies.

Michael is the creator of the UNFAZED program, a systematic approach to breakup recovery and relationship restoration. He also founded the Breakup Dojo, a digital course and community that has supported over 1,000 members through structured recovery programs.

He publishes the Ex-Communication Newsletter, delivering daily breakup recovery advice to over 10,000 subscribers worldwide.

Timeline

2008 — Began researching relationship psychology and infidelity after observing multiple divorces in his family. Deep study of betrayal, trust, and reconciliation patterns.

2010 — Witnessed two close friends navigate a breakup and recognized a systematic path to healthy reconnection, sparking the foundation for what would become his life's work.

2011 — Founded Undo A Breakup, establishing a platform for breakup recovery resources and personalized coaching.

2015 — Launched Breakup Dojo, a comprehensive digital course that has since enrolled over 1,000 members.

2020s — Completed Gottman Method Couples Therapy training (Level 1 & 2), grounding his practical experience in research-based relationship science.

2025 — Released the UNFAZED program, a new systematic approach to breakup recovery and relationship restoration emphasizing pride, posture, and psychological positioning.

Present — Operates a boutique online coaching practice from England, working with clients globally. Publishes the Ex-Communication Newsletter to 10,000+ subscribers and continues developing breakup recovery methodology.

Work & Resources

undoabreakup.com

Breakup recovery resources, articles, and tools. Free diagnostic tool and newsletter.

breakupdojo.com

Comprehensive resource for working on your breakup and rekindling with your ex.

UNFAZED Program

Premium breakup recovery system. Systematic approach to healing and reconnection.

Ex-Communication Newsletter

Daily breakup recovery insights delivered to 10,000+ subscribers worldwide.

Recognition & Media

Requested guest on relationship podcasts
Approached for TV documentary on "breakup specialists"
Trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 1 & 2)
14+ years practical experience with thousands of clients

Philosophy

Michael's approach is grounded in what he calls the Pride Principle: the belief that dignity-preserving strategies outperform manipulation tactics in both healing and reconnection. He focuses on helping clients achieve a Position of Most Opportunity (POMO)—the emotional and strategic position that maximizes both relationship outcomes and long-term well-being.

"You deserve the life you design. So design the life you deserve."

Contact

Based in England. Available for select 1-on-1 coaching engagements. To learn more, email [email protected] with:

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